Improve Your Love-itude - Kelsey Foster

Improve Your Love-itude

by Kelsey on May 13, 2013

“All men are dogs.”

“Women are just such drama and high maintenance!”

“I have terrible luck in love.”

How many times have you heard someone say those statements? How many times have you said (or thought) any of those statements?

Here’s the truth: All men are NOT dogs. All women are not high maintenance. And the reason you think you have terrible luck in love? It’s likely because you believe it on some level and have created a self-fulfilling prophecy. When we tell ourselves (and others) these all-encompassing negative things, we reinforce the belief and subconsciously seek to repeat the pattern. Even though in our hearts we want to attract love and healthy relationships, we push that away with our fear-based negativity.

Now, I’m not saying that the jerky guy who cheated on you with your neighbor is a prince. Or the narcissistic lady who made unreasonable demands on you wasn’t smart to bid goodbye. What I am telling you is despite the shitty behaviors of some of the people in your past, they don’t represent their entire gender. They aren’t a prediction of your future, either.

There are wonderful men and down-to-earth women out there. Trust in that. Believe in that. You will then attract those people to you and be observant of when they come into your life. Hint: they might look and sound different than who you’ve dated in the past.

BUT…the first (and easiest) step is to consciously change how we talk about our beliefs around love.

That’s why I’m starting a 30-Day Improve Your Love-itude Challenge!


This free challenge is where we will agree to stop verbalizing those negative beliefs. Simple as that.

Through the 30 days, I will give you tips on recognizing all the places those negative beliefs reside in our psyches and how to replace them with positive statements…without sugar-coating the crappy stuff you’ve gone through. Because I’m all about being real, folks. It’s possible to be positive without pretending you’ve never been hurt or disappointed.

Sign up here to join me in the 30-Day Improve Your Love-itude Challenge, it’s FREE!


What will you get when you sign up?
:: Daily emails with special Love-itude tips, ideas, and fun
:: Access to a private FB group (optional)
:: First-peek on upcoming projects and juicy stuff I’m creating
:: Subscription to my weekly newsletter
:: A healthier love mindset at the end of 30 days 🙂


The Improve Your Love-itude Challenge, I can’t wait to see you there!

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